So I haven’t celebrated my birthday since my mom’s passing in 2003. She found out she had three months to live on my birthday in 2003 and she died on August 1st. On May 14, 2004, ironically, my birthday landed on Mother’s Day. That year I vowed never to celebrate my birthday again. It’s funny the way life takes turns, isn’t it? A girl never likes to admit when her mother is right and she definitely doesn’t like being compared to her but this year I think I had a change of heart. My mom always used to tell me that “life will always get worse before it gets better.” I always thought that was a negative way to look at things. As usual, mom was right. When “he who shall not be named” (as Paula would say) left a year ago I thought my life had finally reached rock bottom. Of course, when you’re hurt the glass always looks “half-empty.” Luckily, I have my faith and my friends.
The funny thing about “friends” is they are usually there when they need you but rarely to be found when you need them. And then there are your real friends. Sometimes your real friends turn out to be friends you never even knew you had. This year has been one of the most exciting and turbulent years of my life and I’ve made some really wonderful REAL FRIENDS.
Cameron – You’re not exactly the boss that I thought you would be. But, you’re better than that – you’re one of my very best friends. Your love, support, and friendship has been indescribable. No matter where life takes you you’ll always be with me.
Jill – I only met you twice before you turned into my “angel”. You gave me strength, courage, and support when I needed it most. Your yoga influence turned my life around and made me realize the “me” I almost forgot. I can never thank you enough.
Kathy – You’ve always been there for me when I needed you. You’ve kept in touch and stuck around when no one else has. You’re one of my few best friends and more. We have so many great memories, both good and bad, and I will cherish them forever. Thank you, Mrs. Weinberger!
PJ – Girl, I miss you so much. You were there for me through some of the toughest times. Your love and support mean so much to me. Our talks – I will never forget. You taught me to forgive, love and enjoy life. You are one of my very best girlfriends (and you know I don’t have many). The things we share I could never share with any other!
Paula – One word: serendipity. I’m so glad our paths crossed. You are my mentor – and the best one I’ve ever had. Best of all, I know I can trust you and you are my “BFF”. Your faith and guidance has helped me find my own faith.
Sarah – You’ve been there through some of the really tough stuff – like moving out of the Duarte house. You’ve checked in on me and kept me busy when I needed it most. You’ve definitely changed my entire social calendar!
James – The cake (pictured above) says it all. You know me so well. You’ve been there for me. You’ve made me laugh when no one else could (even when I thought I couldn’t) and you help me survive everyday. I know I can always count on you and I can’t thank you enough.
Brian – I guess you’ll have to wait to hear my wedding vows to know how I really feel. =) Thank you for being you and for (as Cam says) “shaking up my snow globe.” You all have made this (apparently two-week long) birthday celebration the best birthday of my life. Thank you all for “forcing” me to live and to celebrate life. From the bottom of my heart…I LOVE YOU ALL!